I am not a fan of facebooking every single thing I do, eat or think, especially not when it comes to very private things. But there is something I want to say to all of you out there, to all my loved ones, family and friends, to people I may have met only once but also to people I don’t know: Many of you know that my family and I have had a very hard time in the past one and a half years. The ninth day of…